Relationships in relation :) to time

Ah, relationship!!!!
One of the most biggest problem I have is that my mind has to sense and feel positive growth around me, in my life and in my soul. I cannot, never ever, be happy in a status quo situation. I am patient, yes, but I have to see more pluses than minuses when I revisit any situation or relationship. Granted that I do not have control on all matters. Relationship is a two-way street. My question is that if you establish grounds for a relationship, and it seems like a pretty solid ground at that, what would you do if this relationship is:
a) active but apparently going nowhere (it must go somewhere if it is active, you say?)
b) turns out to be based on what it will be percieved by others to be
c) long on goals but short on action
d) giving you a feeling of being locked in an idling car on a hot afternoon with the air-conditioning busted
b) all of the above
Okay maybe I have stretched things a bit here. My point is that life is complicated as it is (they say keep it simple!). Why complicate it further?

Glad to be here

Missed one yesterday so am going one more today. I am finding my enthusiasm for writing slowly come back. Its not totally there yet. Will try and get some rest this long weekend. Need to excercise more often. Maybe will go for a walk tomorrow. Or help my niece move. Healthy mnd in a healthy body. Ciao for now.

Will the real AJ please stand up!

Hello,
I just wonder how may people are out there just not being able to live their lives as they would like. There are "what will people think?" issues. Or "maybe soon" issues. How about "I have a reputation to take care of" issue. Let me just say proscrastinate as much as you want while life passes you by. Then suddenly it will be "I wish" situation when your time will come. And come it will. Hopefully one does not have too many regrets then!!!!!!!!

Let's see what happens

Hi friends,
Often I hear the phrase 'let's see what happens'. What do I read from this simple very commonly used term. Does it tell me that there is no time to dwell on it now to act to take some concrete decisions. Or does it tell me that the Creator is in control so we do not have to plan anything for our future for events small or large. Maybe it just is a nice way of saying that this conversation is now closed! In any case whats with this world these days. Everyday I sense more and more that everyone is losing one's grip on life. Let's just enjoy the time we have in every which way we can and then 'let's see what happens'. Bye for now.

Know when to fold 'em

Hello everyone,
It's been a while since I have last visited here but there have been many moments when I have sat down to pen something and the writer angel (that sometimes lands on my right shoulder) has flown away just in the nick of time! Today, however, I have decided to jot down a few things that are on my mind - angel or no angel.
1. I will start writing again regularly
2. I will seek out friends with positively sparkling personalities
3. I will meditate 10 minutes every day
4. I will never reply to sarcasm with sarcasm
5. I will seek the power to heal hurts
6. I will make this world a better place
7. I will always respect the laws of Nature
8. I will love with all my heart
9. I will sing and dance for as long as I am in this body
10. I will do one good deed everyday

Time to write again

Hello,
It's time to write again! This time the differences are that I will write short sequences but more regularly. Like almost everyday. I am seeking a release of some kind. Have come across people that are, for some reason, unable to demonstrate their true spirit. They are like a beautiful flower that will shrivel before it even blooms to its full glory. I want to not be like that. So I have choosen this medium of writing. To feel my spirit soar and feel God.